Tag: Emotions

N is for Nesting, Nuance, and Next

by Mothersense, posted in Mental Health Recovery, Reclamation


If there is one thing this season is teaching me, it’s that life rarely moves in a clean, straight line. Most days, it feels like holding three completely different realities in my hands at once: the physical space I’m trying to create, the uncertain middle ground of my health, and the big, bright future I refuse to let go of.
Right now, three words are keeping me grounded: Nesting, Nuance, and Next.
Nesting
I’ve been quietly prepping a new office space in our guest bedroom—a little corner that is entirely mine, designated for focus, business, and creation. But for now, that room sits waiting. I’m waiting, too—specifically on the doctor’s green light to resume more strenuous activity. It’s a test of patience to see a space ready for you while your body demands that you sit still a little longer.
Nuance
Then there is the nuance of it all. Navigating endless doctor appointments, blood tests, heavy bleeding, low iron, and fatigue isn’t just exhausting; it forces you to face real questions about long-term health and your heart. There isn’t always a quick fix or a simple explanation. Learning to live in the nuance means acknowledging that I am tired and frustrated while still trusting that healing takes time.
Next
Despite the physical pause, my mind is moving forward. Next is where my hope lives. It’s planning for a good outcome, taking concrete steps to launch my insurance business, structuring the LLC for my publishing company, and holding fast to every single goal on my horizon. My body might need rest, but my purpose isn’t on hold.
Here’s to resting in the middle, trusting the process, and building for what comes next.

The Letter L: Lessons, Layers, and the Beauty of Letting Go

by Mothersense, posted in Mental Health Recovery, Reclamation


Today marks a fresh page in the notebook. If you caught my post Saturday August 1,  on A New Beginning, you know we are stepping into this season with fresh intention, a clean slate, and a willingness to embrace where we are right now.
As we keep moving through our alphabetical journey, we’ve arrived at L. And honestly? It couldn’t have come at a better time. Life isn’t linear—it’s full of turns, unexpected shifts, and quiet victories. Today, we’re unpacking three “L” words that help us make sense of the journey and keep us grounded as we build what’s next.
1. Lessons (The Gold in the Grit)
Every season leaves behind a trail of wisdom—if we’re willing to look for it. The hard days, the messy kitchen tables, the pivots in our plans, and the unexpected delays aren’t waste; they are curriculum.
When we look back on where we’ve been, the goal isn’t to linger on what went wrong, but to gather up the lessons. What did that challenging week teach you about your boundaries? What did that creative block teach you about rest? When you view every outcome as information rather than failure, suddenly nothing is lost. Everything becomes fuel for where you’re going next.
Takeaway: Don’t regret the detours. Write down the lesson, keep the wisdom, and drop the weight.
2. Layers (Embracing Your Multitudes)
None of us are just one thing. You aren’t just defined by your day job, your family role, your creative side projects, or your past. You are a collection of layers built over time.
Sometimes we feel pulled in a dozen directions because we carry so many different passions and responsibilities. But here’s the beauty of layers: they give you depth. The patience you practice in one area of your life feeds into your creative work. The organizational systems you build for your home give you the freedom to dream bigger. Embrace all the different titles and talents you carry—they don’t make you scattered; they make you whole.
Takeaway: You don’t have to fit into a single box. Give yourself permission to honor every layer of who you are today.
3. Letting Go (Making Room for the New)
You can’t start a new chapter if you’re still holding onto the clutter of the last one. Whether it’s physical space, old expectations, or the pressure to have everything figured out by Monday morning, letting go is the ultimate act of trust.
As we launch into this new season, take a look around your desk, your calendar, and your mind. What are you holding onto simply out of habit? What mental tabs can you close today? When you clear out what isn’t serving your current season, you create the quiet space needed for new ideas, new energy, and new peace to settle in.
Takeaway: Hands that are full of old clutter can’t reach for new blessings. Open your hands and let it go.
Bringing It Home Today
As you move through this weekend, take a quiet moment over your morning coffee or evening wind-down to ask yourself:
What lesson am I carrying forward into this new start?
What layer of myself have I been neglecting lately?
What space do I need to clear out to make room for what’s next?
Here’s to living intentionally, learning as we go, and giving ourselves grace for the journey.

K is for Kitchen, Keepsakes, and Kinetic Energy

by Mothersense, posted in Mental Health Recovery, Reclamation



We are stepping back into our alphabet journey today, landing right on the letter K. After celebrating the roots and wings of my songwriting last week, it’s time to bring our focus back to the immediate spaces we inhabit—especially when we are managing our capacity.
When you’re navigating health challenges, perimenopause, or the heavy weight of a shifting season, the physical world around you can start to feel like a demanding boss. That’s why we need to talk about three words that change how we interact with our immediate environment: Kitchen, Keepsakes, and Kinetic Energy.
Kitchen (The Command Center): They say the kitchen is the heart of the home, but let’s be honest—it’s the operations hub. Between meal prep, groceries, and feeding a crowd, it takes a lot of mental labor to keep it running. True efficiency here isn’t about color-coded containers; it’s about creating an intuitive flow that cuts down on decision fatigue. When your kitchen has a smart system, it works for you, saving your precious energy when you need it most.
Keepsakes (The Anchors): A home shouldn’t just be functional; it needs to hold your soul. Keepsakes are the tangible pieces of our history—the hand-stitched quilts, the old notebooks, the reminders of loved ones lost that line our shelves. Tending to our keepsakes isn’t about dusting clutter; it’s about honoring the roots that hold us steady. When the world outside feels chaotic or our bodies force us to pause, these pieces remind us of who we are.
Kinetic Energy (The Flow of Action): Kinetic energy is the energy of motion. When you have a “full steam ahead” personality, you want to use your energy in massive bursts—deep-cleaning the whole house or tackling huge projects all at once. But when you are healing, you have to learn to manage your kinetic energy in small, intentional drops. It’s the five-minute counter sweep, or the slow preparation of a single meal. It’s letting the energy flow gently, rather than burning it all out in a single match-strike.
True “mother-sense” is knowing how to balance the management of our physical spaces with the reality of our physical strength. We don’t need to conquer the whole house today. We just need to create a gentle flow that supports us right where we are.
This week, look at your command center. How can you shift the energy in your kitchen or spend a quiet moment with a keepsake to bring a little more peace to your Monday?

Roots, Wings, and the Songwriting Journey

by Mothersense, posted in Musical Musings, This Life



We are breaking away from our standard alphabet schedule today because something beautiful happens when you are forced to pause your physical momentum: your creative spirit finally gets the room it needs to stretch its wings.
For me, that creative space belongs to storytelling, music, and a concept I hold close to my heart: Roots and Wings.
Every song starts the exact same way—with just a few raw, honest lyrics scratched out on a piece of paper. It starts with a feeling, a memory, or a heavy truth that needs a place to go. Years ago, when I first started planting those lyrical seeds, I didn’t know what kind of garden they would grow into. I just knew I had to write them down.
Take these lines, for instance, from a piece called Blackland Ink:
There’s a heavy kind of truth in the turning of the soil
A legacy written in the sweat and the toil
You can bury the past in the deep, dark clay
But the roots hold tight till the rain clears the way.
Today, those scattered pages have grown into a full, versatile catalog of over a hundred songs. They are rooted in the grit and honesty of Americana, Red Dirt, and Country music—genres that don’t shy away from real life, hard truths, or unexpected grief.
And right now, behind the scenes, a major shift is happening. I am currently prepping this entire master catalog to be published through Broken Fence Publishing.
But the goal isn’t to just throw these songs out into the void of the massive commercial music industry. The goal is connection. I am preparing to pitch these pieces directly to independent, niche boutique producers.
Why boutique producers? Because music isn’t a one-size-fits-all product. These songs carry specific messages, deep roots, and unique wings. By working with independent producers who value the craft, I can ensure that each song finds its way into the hands of just the right singing artist—the one whose voice and heart match the story the song was born to tell.
It is a massive milestone in a journey that started with a single pen and a blank notebook. It’s a reminder that even when our physical bodies force us to slow down, the work of our hearts never truly stops. It just waits for the right season to fly.

Happy Friday y’all, just breathe!

The “Heart-Work” and the “Hard-Work”: Finding My Alignment

by Mothersense, posted in This Life


There is a specific kind of magic that happens when “heart-work” and “hard-work” finally begin to align. For the longest time, it felt like I was operating in a valley—navigating the shadows of uncertainty, managing personal hurdles, and wondering when the pieces would start to fit together. But lately, the view has changed. I’m no longer looking at the climb; I’m looking at the moon.
Building from the Ground Up
Building something brand new requires a unique brand of “brain power.” It’s about more than just having an idea; it’s about the grit required to utilize modern tools and technology to bring a vision to life. Whether it’s developing a recipe app to streamline the heart of the home or a recycling app to help protect our planet, these projects represent the fusion of logic and passion.
My creative world has expanded into every corner of storytelling:
The Novel: Deep, immersive world-building.
The Children’s Book: Seeing the world through a lens of wonder.
Short Stories: Capturing those fleeting moments of human connection.
The Master Catalog: Baring my soul through songwriting, turning raw emotion into lyrics and melodies that I hope will eventually find their way into the world.
The Purpose Behind the Hustle
While the creative projects feed my soul, there is a grounded, protective side to this journey. Working in insurance has become a vital part of my mission. It isn’t just about policies; it’s about the people we do all of this for. It is the safety net that protects our families and our dreams, ensuring that the hard work we put in today is preserved for tomorrow.
Tools for the Ascent
Coming out of that valley required more than just luck. It took intentionality. I’ve leaned heavily into the practices that keep my mental health steady and my focus sharp:
Gratitude Journals: Finding the “wins” even on the heavy days.
Manifestation: Being unapologetic about desiring a better life and a bigger future.
Daily Goals: Smashing those small milestones that lead to massive shifts.
Nowhere to Go But Up
Just a few months ago, things felt heavy. Today, the momentum is real. My health is back in my corner, my mind is clear, and the “alignment” everyone talks about is finally starting to feel like a reality.
When you decide to shoot for the moon, you realize that the hard lessons weren’t there to stop you—they were there to prepare you for the altitude. Here’s to the heart-work, the hard-work, and everything that happens when you finally decide to go up.