Focusing on What We Can Control
Life can feel overwhelming at times, especially when we face challenges that are outside of our control. Worrying about the “what ifs” can keep us stuck, anxious, and drained. But when it comes to our mental health, one of the most powerful lessons we can learn is this:
Peace of mind comes when we focus on what we can control and let go of what we cannot.
The ABCs of mental health remind us that there are practical areas of our lives we can manage—daily choices that influence how we feel, how we cope, and how we show up for ourselves and others.
Let’s walk through some of the most important ones:
A – Awareness of What We Consume
We may not be able to control every thought that crosses our mind or every stressor that shows up in our day, but we can control what we allow into our bodies and minds.
- Food: What we eat impacts not just our physical health but also our mental clarity and mood. A balanced diet rich in whole foods, water, fruits, and vegetables helps stabilize energy and emotions.
- Media: What we consume online matters. Too much negative news or endless scrolling can fuel anxiety. Setting boundaries around social media and media consumption is a healthy choice we do control.
Being intentional with consumption—whether food, information, or energy—gives us strength and clarity.
B – Balance in Finances
Money is one of the leading causes of stress for individuals and families. While we cannot always control unexpected expenses or the economy, we can control how we spend, save, and plan.
- Create a budget that supports your goals instead of drains your paycheck.
- Choose mindful spending habits—distinguish between needs and wants.
- Build an emergency fund, even if it’s just a small step at a time.
Financial peace doesn’t come from being wealthy—it comes from being intentional with the resources we already have.
C – Care Through Movement
Our bodies are designed to move. Exercise isn’t just about physical appearance; it is one of the most powerful tools we have for boosting mental health.
- A brisk walk can clear your mind.
- Stretching can release tension from stress.
- Strength training or yoga can rebuild confidence and resilience.
We may not control every health diagnosis or physical limitation, but we can choose to move our bodies in ways that nourish us.
D – Deep Rest and Sleep
Sleep is often overlooked, yet it is vital for mental health. Yes, sometimes our minds race and rest feels hard to come by, but we can take steps to create a healthier sleep environment.
- Stick to a regular sleep schedule.
- Limit screens before bedtime.
- Create a calming routine with reading, prayer, or meditation.
- Keep your room cool, dark, and quiet.
We may not always control when sleep comes easily, but we can build habits that make rest more likely.
Letting Go Brings Freedom
When we shift our energy toward what we can influence, we take back power that stress and anxiety try to steal. The truth is:
- We can’t control every circumstance.
- We can’t control the choices of others.
- We can’t control the unexpected.
But we can control how we respond, what we prioritize, and the daily actions that nurture our body, mind, and spirit.
And when we let go of what we cannot control, we make room for peace of mind, resilience, and growth.
✅ Your challenge this week: Pick just one area—food, finances, exercise, or sleep—and make a small but intentional change. Remember, it’s not about perfection. It’s about progress, awareness, and focusing on the ABCs of what truly matters.
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