It’s the Little Things That Matter

Life can be overwhelming. We all face challenges that sometimes feel impossible to overcome. Whether it’s the end of a relationship, the loss of a job, or the passing of a loved one, it’s easy to get lost in the weight of our struggles. But here’s the thing: you’ve made it through 100% of the hard days you thought might break you. And you’re still here.

Sometimes, we forget to give ourselves credit for just surviving. Life has a way of throwing curveballs, but no matter what, you’re still standing, reading this, and doing what you can to keep moving forward. That is something worth being proud of.

It’s easy to focus on what’s wrong, what’s missing, or what hasn’t gone right. But if you can, try to shift your attention to the little things—the moments of joy and comfort that we often overlook. Those small acts of self-care that may seem insignificant in the grand scheme of things actually mean so much.

So, take a deep breath. You deserve it. Maybe it’s enjoying a cup of coffee or tea in peace. Maybe it’s stepping outside for a few minutes of fresh air. Perhaps it’s treating yourself to something simple, like ordering your favorite meal or watching a show you love. Whatever it is, give yourself permission to enjoy those moments without guilt.

Taking time for yourself isn’t selfish. It’s necessary. The things you do, no matter how small, matter to you. They are reminders of what you’ve endured and what you are capable of. You are allowed to take breaks. You are allowed to rest. You are allowed to find joy in the simple things.

Remember, you can do this. Even on the hardest days, when you feel like you’re just barely holding on, you’re doing better than you think. Don’t forget to be proud of yourself for getting through each moment, each challenge. You are strong, and you deserve to celebrate the small victories.

The journey may not always be easy, but the little things along the way are what can keep you grounded, remind you of your strength, and help you keep moving forward. So take a moment to be proud of yourself, because you’ve earned it. You are here. And that’s enough.

Chronic Pain is a Mother…

Exploring Chronic Pain

Chronic pain is a complex and often debilitating condition affecting millions of people worldwide. It can stem from a variety of causes, including injury, illness, or underlying medical conditions such as arthritis, fibromyalgia, neuropathy, and migraines. While narcotic pain relievers can provide temporary relief, they are not always a sustainable or desirable long-term solution. Many individuals seek alternative treatments to manage their pain more effectively and improve their quality of life. 

If you have read my much older blogs you may know that my ex husband suffered from chronic pain with no known cause. Still to this day I suppose he continues to suffer, but this was my first foray into chronic pain. My second was for myself, last year I suffered a head injury which led to a concussion and post concussion syndrome. Now I live with migraines to which the likes I had never before experienced. Thanks to modern medicine, I can now take a prescription to keep my migraine days down to maybe once a month. The sad part is that it took almost a year of tests and numerous visits with a primary care doctor and neurologist. Many of you may not have the privilege of seeking such medical care and even if you can you may not know what other things might help and what questions to ask the doctors for relief. 

Understanding Chronic Pain Conditions

Chronic pain can manifest in numerous ways, including:

 **Arthritis**: Inflammation in the joints causing stiffness and pain.

 **Fibromyalgia**: Widespread pain, fatigue, and cognitive difficulties.

 **Neuropathic Pain**: Nerve damage leading to shooting or burning pain.

 **Migraines**: Severe headaches often accompanied by nausea and sensitivity to light.

Recognizing the specific type of pain is crucial for effective management, as each condition may respond differently to treatment approaches. Healthcare providers try to stay away from prescribing narcotic medications not only because of addiction but because without realizing it, your body can become dependent. I use the words addiction and dependency to describe different conditions. For me addiction is more of  psychological need accompanied with a physical need to take the medication and dependency is when your body will absolutely go haywire if you choose to stop taking it. Withdrawal in either case is really far more unpleasant and can be harmful for the chronic pain sufferer. This is why I encourage talking to your doctor about medications, supplements and other treatments to come up with a unique treatment plan for your particular pain.

Alternative Treatments for Chronic Pain

1. **Nutritional Supplements**: Certain supplements can help alleviate pain and reduce inflammation:

   – **Omega-3 Fatty Acids**: Found in fish oil, these can help decrease inflammation and improve joint health. You can use supplements or add more fish in your diet, but be sure to read the labels. 

   – **Turmeric**: Contains curcumin, which has anti-inflammatory properties. My nephew uses this for his aches and pains as an installation technician. He is 39 now and his body isn’t moving along so well with all of the repetitive use. 

   – **Magnesium**: May reduce muscle tension and help with nerve pain. I use a magnesium spray that I bought locally. You can also find it on Amazon. 

   – **Glucosamine and Chondroitin**: Often used for joint pain and osteoarthritis. My Dad swore by this combo in helping with his knee pain. 

2. **Mind-Body Techniques**: Practices such as meditation, yoga, and tai chi can promote relaxation and help manage pain through mindfulness and gentle movement. Movement as I have said in previous posts is lubrication, do what you can. Some days will be better than others as always and don’t over-do it, but always try to get a few minutes in daily. 

3. **Physical Therapy**: Tailored exercises can strengthen muscles, improve flexibility, and reduce pain over time. A physical therapist can design a program that aligns with an individual’s specific needs. 

4. **Acupuncture**: This traditional Chinese medicine practice involves inserting needles into specific points to relieve pain and promote healing.

5. **Massage Therapy**: Therapeutic massage can alleviate muscle tension and improve circulation, providing relief for many chronic pain sufferers.

6. **Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)**: This psychological approach helps individuals change their perception of pain and develop coping strategies to manage it effectively.

Activities to Consider

Engaging in gentle physical activities can be beneficial. While it may seem counterintuitive to move when in pain, low-impact exercises like swimming, walking, or cycling can boost endorphin levels, which are natural pain relievers. Additionally, hobbies that promote relaxation, such as painting or gardening, can provide a mental escape and reduce stress.

The Role of Sleep in Pain Management

For many chronic pain sufferers, sleep is often the only respite from their discomfort. However, pain can significantly disrupt sleep patterns, leading to a vicious cycle of fatigue and heightened pain sensitivity. Establishing a calming bedtime routine, creating a comfortable sleep environment, and considering sleep aids—whether natural (like melatonin) or through behavioral adjustments—can help improve sleep quality.

Coping Without Narcotics

While narcotics can be effective for some, they come with risks of dependency and side effects that can be just as debilitating as the pain. Here are strategies to cope without relying solely on narcotics:

 **Stay Informed**: Understand your condition and treatment options. Knowledge empowers you to make informed choices about your care. If you think something might help, bring it up with your healthcare provider. 

 **Support Networks**: Connect with others who understand chronic pain. Support groups, whether in-person or online, can offer encouragement and shared experiences. Facebook, Discord, and What’s app, Reddit do have group options where you can find others who are facing your struggles. 

 **Integrate Therapies**: Many alternative treatments can work in conjunction with prescribed medications. Always consult your healthcare provider before adding new therapies to your routine. When you are transparent with your provider about your pain and that you are willing to explore options besides prescription medication you may get better results from them. I know my neurologist placed a sign in his lobby that he does not prescribe narcotics at all. I suppose that keeps any pill seekers from his office, but he is clear about it up front. The medical community is beginning to embrace holistic medicine and hopefully more providers will look to treat a whole person and not just a set of symptoms . 

Wrapping it up for you: 

Living with chronic pain can be challenging, but exploring alternative treatments and making lifestyle adjustments can lead to significant improvements in quality of life. A comprehensive approach that includes nutritional supplements, physical activities, and mind-body techniques can help alleviate pain and enhance overall well-being. Remember, it’s essential to consult with a healthcare professional before making any changes to your treatment plan. Each person’s experience with pain is unique, and finding the right combination of strategies can lead to a more manageable and fulfilling life. I hope this information gives you a starting point in finding more pain free days.