So…school is kinda challenging me

I returned to school this spring after having not been formally enrolled for more than one class at a time for over 10 years. This is HARD. I don’t mean I am not up to the challenge, I thought I was. I did not take many things into consideration. My children are seriously busy with their own school work. They need their MOM. The girls sports take up quite a bit of our time. I tend to procrastinate unpleasant things, and some of the tasks I have had to do this semester have been tedious, but I did try. Some of the tasks are outside of my comfort zone. I can do alot of things pretty well, but at this point in my life there is not one thing I do exceptionally well. I wish I could find something that I do exceptionally well, it might make things easier. I just wish I felt like some of this stuff was relevant. I can more easily pour myself into a tedious task if I can comprehend the relevance and “bigger picture” of the task.

And now we are at a juncture, the end of 2011. Did online summer classes and 9 hours of on-campus for Fall. This is not working so well for me. Actually being IN class consumes most of my day, and for classes in which we really do not do much or take much away from being in the class.

Laundry Soap

I am currently using an experimental batch of soap that consists of :
1 cup Borax,
3/4 cup baking soda
1 cup SUN Oxygen cleaner
1 cup grated Zote soap
it fits into a baby wipes tub!! use the SUN scoop to measure for each load…its tiny but works!!

cost of each item (plenty left over to make more)
Borax $2.98
lg Arm and Hammer baking Soda $2.12
Sun Oxygen cleaner (like OxiClean) $1.96
Zote bar laundry soap $0.97

clothes are soft and smell CLEAN…not all perfumy!!!

and I bought a Rubbermaid 5 gallon tote with lid for the bigger batch when i figure out which works best
it cost $3.97
My dear friend LaDonna had mentioned making her own laundry soap. After much investigation this afternoon, including talking to my mother, I have found several recipes to look at, including LaDonna’s. Many thanks dear friend. The following are two I plan to try in addition to LaDonna’s (because my mother recommends adding white vinegar to my washer with my clothes)

Powdered Laundry Detergent – Recipe #9

12 cups Borax
8 cups Baking Soda
8 cups Washing Soda
8 cups Bar soap (grated)
Mix all ingredients well and store in a sealed tub.
Use 1/8 cup of powder per full load.
Recipe #10 – (Powdered)

1 cup Vinegar (white)
1 cup Baking Soda
1 cup Washing Soda
1/4 cup liquid castile soap
Mix well and store in sealed container.
I find it easiest to pour the liquid soap into the bowl first, stirred in the washing soda, then baking soda, then added the vinegar in small batches at a time (the recipe foams up at first). The mixture is a thick paste at first that will break down into a heavy powdered detergent, just keep stirring. There may be some hard lumps, try to break them down when stirring (it really helps to make sure the baking soda isn’t clumpy when first adding). I used 1/2 cup per full load with great results.
Recipe #1

1 quart Water (boiling)
2 cups Bar soap (grated)
2 cups Borax
2 cups Washing Soda
Add finely grated bar soap to the boiling water and stir until soap is melted. You can keep on low heat until soap is melted.
Pour the soap water into a large, clean pail and add the Borax and Washing Soda. Stir well until all is dissolved.
Add 2 gallons of water, stir until well mixed.
Cover pail and use 1/4 cup for each load of laundry. Stir the soap each time you use it (will gel).

Decisions….Decisions

Decisions….Decisions
by Julie Roeber on Friday, March 11, 2011 at 12:11pm
I recently snagged this from a soccer or defunct (?) soccer club’s website as noted at the end. With that being said, we have a child who hopes to play college soccer. Keeping that goal in mind, we have to weigh our options in helping her see that dream come true. Here is some information we found to be helpful and honest.

About Competitive/Select Soccer
Deciding whether or not your child should play recreational soccer or competitive (“select”) soccer is often a daunting task for parents not familiar with the world of competitive sports. The primary deciding factor that you should consider when making the select vs. rec decision is whether or not you wish to accelerate your child’s soccer development in a professionally guided training environment.
What Is Select / Competitive Soccer?
In recreational soccer, the focus is most often on social interaction, “having fun” with friends, which often comes at the expense of instruction. In select soccer, the focus in on teaching in an enjoyable manner that is appropriate for the child’s age level. Individual skills and team tactics are taught by high-level, professional coaches in order to more fully develop the child’s level of play. The end result – young athletes that know how to play soccer at a much higher level than their corresponding recreational players.

Select soccer differs from recreational soccer in several ways but the primary difference is in the level of coaching provided. Coaching is like teaching – it requires extensive knowledge of the subject and the ability to communicate that knowledge to young athletes. In recreational soccer, the coach is typically a noble parent with little or no competitive or high level soccer experience. Select soccer differs from recreational soccer in that coaches are experts in their field, have the demonstrated ability to share that knowledge with their team, and are paid a professional salary.

Competitive soccer coaches have extensive playing experience – most at the professional level. Select coaches are licensed at a national level, most at Grade D or higher, and many have college degrees in education or sports related degrees. Their training will have included proper individual player and team techniques, how to conduct efficient practices, and how to motivate a young athlete.

Recreational coaches are volunteers and are restricted from accepting money by NTSSA rules. Select coaches are interviewed and go through an extensive selection process before they are hired by the club. They are paid from dues collected from the team and for many, coaching is their full-time job.
Clubs
In recreational soccer, the entity that encompasses a team is their “association” – for instance, Fort Worth Youth Association. In select soccer, the encompassing entity is the team’s “club”, such as the Fort Worth United Soccer Club. The “club” will contain many teams at various age and skill levels. As the name implies, a “club” type atmosphere is promoted with clubs often hosting non-soccer related activities such as parties or extracurricular trips to promote bonding.

The club will also recognize many cost efficiencies, such as corporate sponsorships (e.g. Adidas, Pepsi-Cola) and increased buying power (clubs receive sharp discounts on things such as uniforms, equipment, and supplies). These savings are passed on to the club members in the form of lower dues.
Games
Recreational and select soccer are the same in that the soccer year consists of 2 seasons (Spring and Fall) with each season containing a schedule of 10 games. Select soccer teams usually play from 2-5 tournaments per season whereas most recreational teams do not play any tournaments at all. Recreational soccer and select soccer are also the same in that many teams choose to play indoor during off seasons (although it’s usually optional for both recreational and select teams).
Tryouts / Team Selection
In recreational soccer, teams are formed based on random selections from the player pool regardless of their level of ability or knowledge of the game. In select soccer, teams are formed based on player “grading” during the club’s annual tryouts (which take place during the first week of July). In many medium to large clubs (such as Fort Worth United), multiple teams exist in a single age group with players placed on a team appropriate for their level of skill. In recreational soccer, children are placed on a team based on location (i.e. which neighborhood they live in) whereas in select soccer, placement depends upon the level of skill.
Costs
Costs differ widely depending upon the club you decide to play for. In recreational soccer, costs cover league fees and uniforms. Some recreational teams collect additional money for tournaments, indoor play, and special training camps and clinics. In select soccer, the club forms a budget for the year and the monies due are split amongst the members of the team. A down payment is typically required and the remaining payments are stretched out on a monthly basis with a period of 5-10 months.

Select clubs are often a 501 (c) (3) non-profit organization. All monies collected go towards team costs. Costs in select soccer will include things such as regular season fees, referee fees, tournament fees, indoor fees, camps and clinics. All of these costs, after being discounted as mentioned above, are included in the member’s monthly dues.
Time Commitment
Recreational practices are typically held once a week with games played once a week on Saturday. In select soccer, teams typically practice twice a week and sometimes three times a week before critical tournaments or games. Select teams also typically play one game a week on Saturday. The seasons in both consist of 10 regular season games.


Recreational games are usually held in the immediate community where the team is based. In select soccer, where games are played depends upon which league you are playing in. In the Arlington league, teams typically play half their games in their home organization’s community (which is usually Fort Worth or Arlington) and the other half are “away” games. In the Metroplex, away games could be in Dallas or Fort Worth. In the highest level leagues, games are played in Dallas.

Final Word on Scholarships- I personally checked on this
Soccer differs from other sports in Texas in the way that college scholarships are awarded. In most sports, college recruiters attend the games of the top Texas high school teams and make selections from that pool of players. In soccer, college recruiters attend select soccer games or competitive “showcase” tournaments to scout – they make little use of high school level games.

North Texas is considered to be one of the “hotbeds” of select soccer in the United States and the top competitive leagues in North Texas are considered the best in the country. College recruiters from around the United States attend competitive soccer events in North Texas to make their selections for scholarship awards.

The Dallas Morning News recently reported that 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 5 boys that play competitive soccer in North Texas earn college scholarships. For a player that wishes to play at a collegiate level or higher, competitive soccer is the only route to success.

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March 26- Laundry Soap

I am currently using an experimental batch of soap that consists of :
1 cup Borax,
3/4 cup baking soda
1 cup SUN Oxygen cleaner
1 cup grated Zote soap
it fits into a baby wipes tub!! use the SUN scoop to measure for each load…its tiny but works!!

cost of each item (plenty left over to make more)
Borax $2.98
lg Arm and Hammer baking Soda $2.12
Sun Oxygen cleaner (like OxiClean) $1.96
Zote bar laundry soap $0.97

clothes are soft and smell CLEAN…not all perfumy!!!

and I bought a Rubbermaid 5 gallon tote with lid for the bigger batch when i figure out which works best
it cost $3.97
My dear friend LaDonna had mentioned making her own laundry soap. After much investigation this afternoon, including talking to my mother, I have found several recipes to look at, including LaDonna’s. Many thanks dear friend. The following are two I plan to try in addition to LaDonna’s (because my mother recommends adding white vinegar to my washer with my clothes)

Powdered Laundry Detergent – Recipe #9

12 cups Borax
8 cups Baking Soda
8 cups Washing Soda
8 cups Bar soap (grated)
Mix all ingredients well and store in a sealed tub.
Use 1/8 cup of powder per full load.
Recipe #10 – (Powdered)

1 cup Vinegar (white)
1 cup Baking Soda
1 cup Washing Soda
1/4 cup liquid castile soap
Mix well and store in sealed container.
I find it easiest to pour the liquid soap into the bowl first, stirred in the washing soda, then baking soda, then added the vinegar in small batches at a time (the recipe foams up at first). The mixture is a thick paste at first that will break down into a heavy powdered detergent, just keep stirring. There may be some hard lumps, try to break them down when stirring (it really helps to make sure the baking soda isn’t clumpy when first adding). I used 1/2 cup per full load with great results.
Recipe #1

1 quart Water (boiling)
2 cups Bar soap (grated)
2 cups Borax
2 cups Washing Soda
Add finely grated bar soap to the boiling water and stir until soap is melted. You can keep on low heat until soap is melted.
Pour the soap water into a large, clean pail and add the Borax and Washing Soda. Stir well until all is dissolved.
Add 2 gallons of water, stir until well mixed.
Cover pail and use 1/4 cup for each load of laundry. Stir the soap each time you use it (will gel).

SLANG

I have had recent interactions with people where I had no idea what they were referring to when they typed things. Ok, so I have discovered there is definitely a generation gap among other things when it comes to the ever changing world of slang.

For example:
1) on their grand-daughter’s facebook page Ron and Judy wanted to know what a “camel toe” was. Ok I knew what was being referred to, but could not see where it was a good idea to tell them.
2) another one was a friend of mine asking what ROFLMBO meant. OK I thought EVERYONE knew what it meant, but I did not mind explaining. It was harmless and made me realize that when it comes to acronyms and slang, we are not on a level playing field.
3) dear Dorothy looked up “Brazilian blowout” in the online urban dictionary. Well the definition provided there is not one that is appropriate for this blog, but MY meaning was for a process that is done on curly/frizzy hair to make it smooth and straight. My friend Teresa does this at a local salon and the ladies are loving the results.
4) FTW ok, I thought this meant FOR THE WIN, and then a teen-ager wrote FTW on her picture of Rio de Janiero, Brazil. Well I was so confused because I had NO idea what For the Win had to do with the fact that she one day wanted to travel to Rio. It still makes no sense to me, and I thought that she intended to have the abbreviation mean something else, but that wasn’t the case.

These are only a few in recent history, but it certainly shows that nothing stays the same and the internet can be dangerous! LOL : ) (and yes I did giggle out loud)